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#435048 - 05/18/13 02:46 PM Trying this
bcl092 Offline


Registered: 07/07/08
Posts: 27
Loc: Long Island, NY
I'm not that new, I've been reading for a while. I have a history of sexual abuse when I was 9-12. Anyway I have terrible depression, anxiety and other issues. I just graduated college and I'm trying to live on my own. I would like to have a relationship but I can't really have sex. Most people want it and when I tell them I have a history of abuse they just ditch me and think I'm weird. Anyway I hope to meet great people here.

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#435051 - 05/18/13 02:56 PM Re: Trying this [Re: bcl092]
victor-victim Offline


Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 3598
Loc: O Kanada
welcome aboard.

i like it here.

hope you do.


i have met great people here.


you are not weird.
"For I do not do the good I want, but the evil I do not want is what I keep on doing."
-Apostle Paul Romans 7:19
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Victor|Victim

War
Love
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#435088 - 05/18/13 10:29 PM Re: Trying this [Re: bcl092]
Jude Offline


Registered: 08/09/12
Posts: 1600
Loc: New England
Welcome bc,

I'm glad you have found reading posts here helpful. Actually posting about yourself was a big step, which is to be commended. Silence does not bring healing, but telling the truth about what happened can.

You are in good company here. We are men from all walks of life, all ages, all shapes and sizes, all orientations, and many countries. We all have this one experience in common that has affected our lives so much. Sex problems? Oh yes, lots of them. You are definitely not alone.

Look forward to hearing more from you.

Jude
_________________________
Seems I've got to have a change of scene
Every night I have the strangest dreams
Imprisoned by the way it could have been
Left here on my own or so it seems
I've got to leave before I start to scream
Joe Cocker

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#435189 - 05/19/13 09:46 PM Re: Trying this [Re: bcl092]
kcinohio Offline
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Registered: 06/06/12
Posts: 371
Loc: Ohio
Welcome to the MS forums. Thanks for your post.

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#435929 - 05/26/13 11:43 PM Re: Trying this [Re: bcl092]
Dave PNW Offline


Registered: 04/03/13
Posts: 121
Loc: Pacific Northwest
Hey BC, good for you to take this step. You are brave. Took me 40 years to start to work on this. I have found much support and some healing and the courage to get some professional help. Wish you peace.

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