I'm glad you have found reading posts here helpful. Actually posting about yourself was a big step, which is to be commended. Silence does not bring healing, but telling the truth about what happened can.
You are in good company here. We are men from all walks of life, all ages, all shapes and sizes, all orientations, and many countries. We all have this one experience in common that has affected our lives so much. Sex problems? Oh yes, lots of them. You are definitely not alone.
Look forward to hearing more from you.
"Stand, in the end you'll still be you,
One that's done all the things you set out to do.
Stand, there's a cross for you to bear,
Things to go through if you're going anywhere."Sly & the Family Stone