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#434592 - 05/13/13 08:26 PM Gay Relationship Drama
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Edited by bodyguard8367 (02/27/14 03:10 PM)

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#434593 - 05/13/13 08:43 PM Re: Gay Relationship Drama [Re: bodyguard8367]
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{{{Geoff}}}

I wish I had words to comfort you - but you are NOT a loser. You helped me.
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#434596 - 05/13/13 09:11 PM Re: Gay Relationship Drama [Re: bodyguard8367]
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Geoff... I have to agree with Chase Eric. Your are not a loser. You have helped me many times as well. Hugs, guy.
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#434608 - 05/13/13 09:51 PM Re: Gay Relationship Drama [Re: bodyguard8367]
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Whassup Geoff? PM me.

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#434612 - 05/13/13 11:27 PM Re: Gay Relationship Drama [Re: bodyguard8367]
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((((geoff)))))

Dude I hope that you know those are the voices of the past shouting at you man. you are far from worthless many many here will attest to that. it is hard when we know that we have messed up somehow but many times it is not us at all. please breathe long and deep man. you are a good man and deserve good things. keep on hanging on man better times will come
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#434622 - 05/14/13 05:15 AM Re: Gay Relationship Drama [Re: bodyguard8367]
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Hey Geoff,
how about saying couple of nice and comforting things about self? As I've already said in some other topic you've been such big force of positive energy here and thank you for that wink
Many of us are sometimes seeing things in bad light. Being survivor makes it even worse. So please don't beat yourself.
You have all reasons of this world to be angry drama queen for something that happened forty years ago. You've been hurt so much, it is important to acknowledge that long lasting pain.
It can be difficult when our partners were involved into that minefield as they could be tired of it sometimes but it is almost impossible to avoid it.
So here and there you could do something nice for your man, you could surprise him with some nice meal, do housework with some inviting clohtes on or something else that you find as romantic and by so make your day better. You and your hubby deserve it wink

(((Geoff)))
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#434642 - 05/14/13 11:25 AM Re: Gay Relationship Drama [Re: bodyguard8367]
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Originally Posted By: bodyguard8367
I am such a looser...I hope I can learn to be better.

Boy-o-boy Geoff, can I relate! But cut out the "I'm a loser" crap. I've done that for years and it doesn't get you anywhere.

You are am man with an emotional handicap, through no fault of your own. One you can recover from. It Will Get Better!. This is not the end of the road, its just another bump. Do whatever you have to to get past it.

Jude
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they shake their heads, they say I've changed.
Something's lost but something's gained in living every day
....it's life's illusions I recall, I really don't know life at all. "
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#434654 - 05/14/13 01:42 PM Re: Gay Relationship Drama [Re: bodyguard8367]
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Edited by bodyguard8367 (02/27/14 03:10 PM)

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#434664 - 05/14/13 02:54 PM Re: Gay Relationship Drama [Re: bodyguard8367]
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Man, I'm sorry to hear all this Geoff. At the same time, I get what it took to be blunt on here. Thank you.

Honestly, buddy, I don't have any advice. But perhaps some perspective since you brought up the mileage. You guys have just upended everything by moving to the fucking other side of the country and both have adjustment going on...including social circles, if any.

And, y'know, it's not unlike jettisoning the fucked up family dynamic...which you happen to be doing simultaneously. It's a bunch of new, unknown, untested experiences that - especially at our advanced age - can be unsettling. You've just stepped out of your comfort zone...actually, you've just taken a leap.

(That southern accent probably doesn't help in the NW either) wink

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#434674 - 05/14/13 05:03 PM Re: Gay Relationship Drama [Re: bodyguard8367]
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Edited by bodyguard8367 (02/27/14 03:11 PM)

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