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#429844 - 04/02/13 03:40 PM Hello from Jim
@JJ Offline


Registered: 03/30/13
Posts: 2
A nice woman told me I could further my journey (of coming back all the way and finding my true self) if I utilized this site.

I was molested when I was just 6yrs old at the foot of my favorite tree by one of my Dad's better friends. I trusted him to help me, but he knew not to threaten me and I didn't know what was happening was wrong anyway.

When I was about 28yo I remembered my abuse, but I had been dealing with the after-affects from my youngest days. I've had a lot of great therapy and thought I was over this. I'm not, though. I'd appreciate all your help.

JJ

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#429927 - 04/03/13 09:24 AM Re: Hello from Jim [Re: @JJ]
Jude Offline


Registered: 08/09/12
Posts: 1584
Loc: New England
Welcome Jim!

Your friend was right, this is a place that can help further your journey of recovery and healing. I'm so sorry for what happened to you. But the best thing you can do for yourself is talk about it. Every time you do, a little of the shame is chipped away.

You among a large group of guys who understand your feelings and experiences. Who won't judge you or doubt you. We will be here for you when it gets rough, and will cheer you on when you are making progress.

Good luck, and I hope to hear more from you.

Jude
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Can't be bothered with sorrow
And I can't be bothered with hate, no, no
I'm using up the time but feeling fine every day
That's why I'm telling you
I just want to celebrate another day of livin'
Rare Earth

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#433239 - 05/02/13 02:34 AM Re: Hello from Jim [Re: @JJ]
WriterKeith Offline
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Registered: 12/30/10
Posts: 952
Loc: southern California
Hey, JJ,

You're among others who understand. We've taken some hard knocks too and we're walking alongside you on this road.

The levels of healing seem to come in cycles, so it may seem like you're having a setback when it's really a leap to the next level of quality living.

Feel free to join the discussions in threads or in chat rooms.
Welcome,
Keith
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"A burned bridge can be a gift; it prevents us from returning to a place we should have never been."
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5JfvAPZGjds

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#433247 - 05/02/13 05:06 AM Re: Hello from Jim [Re: @JJ]
victor-victim Offline


Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 3427
Loc: O Kanada
sincere welcome, jim.

may you find what you seek here.

i have made some incredible discoveries and breakthroughs on this website.

i get more insight from this forum than i do from all my therapists combined.
although, i believe i needed the therapy to understand what i read here properly, and to put it into personal context.

please heed the TRIGGER WARNINGS on the days you are feeling vulnerable.

i recommend you start where i started...
http://www.malesurvivor.org/board/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=282443&an=1#Post282443
http://www.malesurvivor.org/board/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=423271&an=1#Post423271


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#433302 - 05/02/13 03:07 PM Re: Hello from Jim [Re: @JJ]
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Registered: 05/16/12
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