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#432665 - 04/27/13 07:23 PM disturbing image/thought
traveler Offline

Registered: 02/07/06
Posts: 3889
Loc: somewhere in Africa
i found this while looking for something else in an image search:

the poster is actually intended to make people think more about pregnancy in young girls and make them more shocked by showing an image that is not right.

but it got me thinking - i wonder if people would be more concerned about sekual abuse of males if there was the possibility of boys becoming pregnant. maybe the fact that there is not a potential visible and living consequence to rape of males means that most people dont consider it as serious?

"the scariest thing about abuse of any shape or form, is, in my opinion, not the abuse itself, but that if it continues it can begin to feel commonplace and eventually acceptable."
- Alan Cumming, "Not My Father's Son"

#432673 - 04/27/13 10:11 PM Re: disturbing image/thought [Re: traveler]
pufferfish Offline

Registered: 02/26/08
Posts: 6875
Loc: USA
It's an effective thought and would influence some people.

In a recent post about a famous "perp" in England, he was quoted as saying that boys are more fun than girls sick eek


#432677 - 04/27/13 10:29 PM Re: disturbing image/thought [Re: traveler]
victor-victim Offline

Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 6197
Loc: O Kanada
in my town, there are many government, church, public and private resources for FEMALE victims, and only ONE service for MALE survivors.
that one office is supposed to service an area with a population of about 2 million people.
It is NOT free. there is quite a waiting list.

i was told point blank that men are NOT welcome at any of the female group therapy sessions because the abusers were all male and it would be difficult, if not impossible, for women to feel safe enough to speak freely with a man in the room.

very few resources have been allocated to male survivors.

i did find ONE therapy group for men, but it was only available by court order to men who had been convicted of sexual offences, were at risk to reoffend, and were themselves victims of CSA.

i tried to enroll but...
of course, it was overbooked, and i did not qualify, since i was not a criminal.

i guess we men are just supposed to tough it out.
that is what i had to do mostly.

no wonder so many of the abused males become male abusers.
i would wager that a significant majority of male survivors NEVER reveal their hidden history.

can you win the game, if you don't know the rules?
can you make repairs, if you don't have the tools?



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