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#432566 - 04/26/13 07:19 PM please welcome me back
victor-victim Offline


Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 3362
Loc: O Kanada
hello, brothers and sisters.

it has been a long time since i have posted or even visited this website.

much has happened and i feel compelled to come back here with new feelings, thoughts and ideas.

hope you appreciate my input.

thanks for keeping this on-line resource running all these years. i was a huge help when i first discovered it.
now I hope to help others. i am far from "cured" but i am miles beyond where i was when i first came to this forum.

my love goes out to you all.
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#432576 - 04/26/13 08:41 PM Re: please welcome me back [Re: victor-victim]
newground Offline
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Registered: 10/11/11
Posts: 768
Loc: michigan
Welcome back fellow survivor! I hope that your healing journey is continuing well I know that I have found a tremendous wealth of community here and hope you find yourself at home as a brother
Jeff
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Towards thee I roll, thou all-destroying but unconquering whale; to the last I grapple with thee; from hell's heart I stab at thee; for hate's sake I spit my last breath at thee. let me then tow to pieces, while still chasing thee, thou damned whale! Thus, I give up the spear!"
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#432578 - 04/26/13 08:47 PM Re: please welcome me back [Re: victor-victim]
traveler Offline
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Registered: 02/07/06
Posts: 3449
Loc: somewhere in Africa
welcome back, victor.

i look forward to hearing what you have learned while you've been away.

lee
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As my life goes on I believe somehow something's changed
Something deep inside...
I've been searchin so long to find an answer
Now I know my life has meaning
Now I see myself as I am, feeling very free...
When my tears have come to an end I will understand
What I left behind: a part of me. Chicago


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#432581 - 04/26/13 08:55 PM Re: please welcome me back [Re: traveler]
victor-victim Offline


Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 3362
Loc: O Kanada
i have posted quite a few things today.
hope they make sense.
thanks for your reply.
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#432583 - 04/26/13 08:57 PM Re: please welcome me back [Re: newground]
victor-victim Offline


Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 3362
Loc: O Kanada
thank you so much for your welcoming words.
i will contribute when, where and however i can.

my journey to joy has never ended. it was only interrupted.
all my new information has been posted today, already.
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#432604 - 04/27/13 01:07 AM Re: please welcome me back [Re: victor-victim]
peroperic2009 Offline
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Registered: 10/09/11
Posts: 3610
Loc: South-East Europe
Welcome back victor,
it is good to see you here with us, I'm sure your inputs would add much to this community.
Something is telling me that your number of posts would be much higher than those current 12 wink
Welcome back once more time!
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#432618 - 04/27/13 06:31 AM Re: please welcome me back [Re: peroperic2009]
victor-victim Offline


Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 3362
Loc: O Kanada
your words are appreciated.
you know, i came here all confident and cured, but after reading many of these new posts, i feel like i am starting to get bad feelings again. it still depresses and angers me to see that so many people have fallen prey to the perpetrators.

i guess it never ends.

for every one of us that survives, one wonders how many never recover. i wish i could save them all.
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#432620 - 04/27/13 07:14 AM Re: please welcome me back [Re: victor-victim]
peroperic2009 Offline
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Registered: 10/09/11
Posts: 3610
Loc: South-East Europe
Take care for yourself, it can be overwhelming and even re-traumatizing occasionally while reading some hurtful stories.
Sometimes if it is too much it is better to step aside and take pause for short time...
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#432864 - 04/29/13 01:37 PM Re: please welcome me back [Re: victor-victim]
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Edited by bodyguard8367 (02/26/14 11:10 PM)

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#432909 - 04/29/13 06:20 PM Re: please welcome me back [Re: victor-victim]
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Registered: 07/14/12
Posts: 428
Loc: USA
Welcome back brother!
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#432942 - 04/29/13 10:06 PM Re: please welcome me back [Re: victor-victim]
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Registered: 10/30/12
Posts: 414
Loc: Canada
Welcome back v-v ...

I know what you mean ... I am relatively new here myself
and I've kinda stayed away from Posts ... until just lately.
They can be very hard to read sometimes.
Worse yet ... they compel me to respond
and that frightens me.
I don't like putting out thoughts and feelings I can't erase.

So I'm glad you are back ... another voice eager to be heard ...
Another soul that needs soothing ...
Another shoulder to lean on.
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#432962 - 04/29/13 11:18 PM Re: please welcome me back [Re: victor-victim]
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Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 3362
Loc: O Kanada



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#432966 - 04/30/13 12:43 AM Re: please welcome me back [Re: victor-victim]
Farmer Boy Offline
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Registered: 08/23/12
Posts: 442
Loc: Australia
Victor

So far your words have been very insigtful. I think you have a lot to offer as well as gain from being here. Just don't over do it.

Your story/journey of forgiveness is both tragic and inspirational.

Thank you for sharing.

Lee
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#433021 - 04/30/13 11:29 AM Re: please welcome me back [Re: victor-victim]
victor-victim Offline


Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 3362
Loc: O Kanada
sometimes if you over do it,
you have to do it over smile
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#433207 - 05/01/13 09:48 PM Re: please welcome me back [Re: victor-victim]
kcinohio Offline
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Registered: 06/06/12
Posts: 336
Loc: Ohio
Welcome back Victor. I can relate to coming back later on and looking at this stuff again from a different place than before.

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#433914 - 05/07/13 05:56 PM Re: please welcome me back [Re: Shyshark]
victor-victim Offline


Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 3362
Loc: O Kanada
Originally Posted By: Shyshark
Welcome back v-v ...

I don't like putting out thoughts and feelings I can't erase.




i am not sure... do double check... but...
i think you can delete messages or erase any words you post.
even alter them after they have already been put up in a forum.

i could be wrong. you could try it with something unimportant.
check with the moderators of malesurvivor.org
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