It took over 30 years to progress to this point.
I feel it is important to share this with other SA survivors like me.
it is my opinion through personal experience that...
HEALTH and HAPPINESS and JOY and EMPOWERMENT can be improved through UNCONDITIONAL LOVE and FORGIVENESS.
this will sound crazy, but I FORGAVE THOSE WHO ABUSED ME.
if you are not ready for this yet, I completely understand.
it took me decades to wrap my mind around it.
it was one of the most difficult things I have ever done in my entire life!!!
this is not a "miracle cure"... I am still me... i still struggle daily... but I FEEL A MILLION TIMES BETTER. I just hope other survivors will discover what I have learned, without suffering needlessly for most of their life (AS I DID).
please read my story of forgiveness, if you feel prepared
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