You should have told someone? Really? If any help CF, I was 15-16 and I didn't tell anyone because I had no clue I could and, even then, WHO would I tell? IF I'd told, looking back, would it have made the situation worse?
Abusive home environment - they'd already threatened to have me "put away" - plus a high school guidance counselor who was in control of my classes, choice of college, etc. And I'm gonna tell? HAH!
No, Little CF didn't make any mistake. And I agree with those who have posted that your father is deflecting blame. I'm pleased to hear you immediately recognized that. Your thinking and assessment is very clear. Well done!
I don't know what kind of control he has over your life right now but, at the least I'd bring it up to the T to see if you can find a way out of it.