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#432197 - 04/23/13 06:06 PM Hi
kann Offline

Registered: 04/22/13
Posts: 8
I wish these websites where around 10 years ago

#432200 - 04/23/13 06:13 PM Re: Hi [Re: kann]
SamV Offline

Registered: 12/13/09
Posts: 5934
Loc: Talladega, Alabama, USA
Close :), we were formed about 8 years ago as a website. Nice to meet you kann, I am glad you have found us.

When you are comfortable, share a bit of you and your story with us, till then, know that you are among your fellow male survivors.

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"Lets talk about that."

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*When provoked* "Anyone holding back his sayings is possessed of knowledge.” (Proverbs 17:27)"

#432201 - 04/23/13 06:20 PM Re: Hi [Re: kann]
kann Offline

Registered: 04/22/13
Posts: 8
Well, 1st I have never said anything to family, friends.. I think they think I am gay, never had a gf... I would rather think that I am gay than being raped/abused when i was 7...

#432216 - 04/23/13 09:28 PM Re: Hi [Re: kann]
Jude Offline

Registered: 08/09/12
Posts: 1369
Loc: New England
Welcome Kann,

In this community you don't have to worry about your identity. The amazing thing about MS is that there are men here of all ages, backgrounds, sexual orientations, lifestyles, religions, and even from several countries. But we all have this one awful experience in common that unites us, and allows us to see that we're not alone in this. Heal well, and share when you feel comfortable. There's much to learn here and much to help others learn.

"When I was a child
I caught a fleeting glimpse
Out of the corner of my eye
I turned to look but it was gone
I cannot put my finger on it now
The child is grown, the dream is gone
And I have become comfortably numb."
Pink Floyd

#432274 - 04/24/13 11:37 AM Re: Hi [Re: kann]
BuffaloCO Offline

Registered: 07/14/12
Posts: 412
Loc: USA
Welcome Kann, I agree with Sam and Jude. I was also perped very young and it went on for years. Our stories may not be exactly the same, but like Jude said we have shared hurts and can help each other heal. Welcome Brother! smile
“We can easily forgive a child who is afraid of the dark. The real tragedy of life is when men are afraid of the light.” - Plato

#432367 - 04/25/13 09:22 AM Re: Hi [Re: kann]
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Registered: 05/16/12
Posts: 1159
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