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#432911 - 04/29/13 06:31 PM Re: Questions for Wives or Husbands [Re: L84]
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Registered: 12/02/11
Posts: 95
Loc: South
L84, I've been thinking about this thread the past couple of days. I do have a question to you as a survivor, and if any other MSers can add anything, if would be helpful to me.

Do you notice that as you heal and move away from "all or nothing" thinking in a general sense, that you also move away from avoidance/compulsion sexually? if so, can you describe what that process feels like emotionally? Is it a forward-back thing? i see that healing is more of a gradual curve, with a few steps back into old comforts, and I guess I'm wondering what emotions go with that.

Sorry to derail, and if this needs to be split into a new thread, I fully understand.

#436869 - 06/04/13 05:16 PM Re: Questions for Wives or Husbands [Re: Airmid]
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Registered: 11/17/12
Posts: 22
Loc: USA

Thanks for your questions. I don't mind.
Sorry, didn't see your response and am late getting back on this. Will PM you.

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