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#431382 - 04/16/13 12:19 AM Re: Question for those with DID - Fight Club [Re: lbcali1978]
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Originally Posted By: lbcali1978
I sometimes blacked out and lost large chunks of my days. But I pretty much stopped that area of exploration with them.

Yes, this could well be DID. But I will not press you on this until you are willing to pursue it.
Originally Posted By: ibcali1978

But I'm not knocking them at all. I just don't like how the world views it. So I personally stopped exploring that line of diagnosis. Hope I made some sense there. I believe it's a legitimate condition.


It's OK to express yourself like that. Actually most DIDs at some point or another feel very threatened. I did. I felt threatened because the perp threatened me with a knife and torture, saying that if I ever told, he would find me and kill me...This is what it would feel like to be killed...{torture...torture} That's what he said, whether it was correct or not.

Puffer

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#431383 - 04/16/13 12:26 AM Re: Question for those with DID - Fight Club [Re: pufferfish]
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#431403 - 04/16/13 06:32 AM " [Re: pufferfish]
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Edited by lbcali1978 (04/29/13 12:09 AM)
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They said

Come home

I said

I'm confused and alone

They said

We understand

I found out they don't

I'll walk the path exactly how I've always done it

Alone

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#431404 - 04/16/13 06:34 AM " [Re: pufferfish]
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Edited by lbcali1978 (04/29/13 12:07 AM)
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They said

Come home

I said

I'm confused and alone

They said

We understand

I found out they don't

I'll walk the path exactly how I've always done it

Alone

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#431430 - 04/16/13 11:19 AM Re: Question for those with DID - Fight Club [Re: lbcali1978]
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Originally Posted By: lbcali1978
I just have too much on my plate to open up to another life of unknown things. Sometimes I get tired of fighting


I certainly understand this. I have had a similar reaction in that the abuse when I was 12 was so massive that it took years of counseling time and I couldn't look to other issues from other years.

Puffer



Edited by pufferfish (04/16/13 11:22 AM)

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#431486 - 04/16/13 08:24 PM " [Re: pufferfish]
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Edited by lbcali1978 (04/29/13 12:07 AM)
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They said

Come home

I said

I'm confused and alone

They said

We understand

I found out they don't

I'll walk the path exactly how I've always done it

Alone

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#431528 - 04/17/13 03:14 AM Re: Question for those with DID - Fight Club [Re: lbcali1978]
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Originally Posted By: lbcali1978
Yes. Exactly even my T will tell me to move at my own pace. But sometimes he gets a little impatient when I don't want to address issues. I want to argue, but I have to remind myself he's just human too. He sees things about me I'm not aware of yet. So he has to slow down to let me get there. If I have DID. It just may take a fews years to accept it probably.

Question though (this is off topic)

What is the primary reason the mod team wont remove survivor stories when requested to? I can accept them staying but I'd like to know why they have to.


it was probably just an oversight. Try again. Send a message direct to puffer or another mod rather than the generic mod team account.


Edited by Jacob S (04/17/13 03:19 AM)
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Like a spent gladiator
crawling in the colosseum dust
who can count on his remaining limbs
all the people he can trust.
Like the one who stands behind him
cheering him on
Estatic when he stands defiant,
wild with abandon when he's gone

just stay alive.
do whatever you need to.
you are worth it.

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#431619 - 04/17/13 11:20 PM Re: Question for those with DID - Fight Club [Re: Jacob S]
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My healing was/is greatly slowed down by the massive abuse when I was 12. It took many years just to deal with that.

Puffer

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#431814 - 04/20/13 12:39 AM " [Re: pufferfish]
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Edited by lbcali1978 (04/29/13 12:08 AM)
_________________________
They said

Come home

I said

I'm confused and alone

They said

We understand

I found out they don't

I'll walk the path exactly how I've always done it

Alone

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