Whenever I come across something like this, I just remind myself that with 7 billion people in the world, there's ALWAYS going to be someone who says something inappropriate. Take any issue in the world and any tragedy -- there will always be people willing to say stupid and insensitive things about it. Sometimes they are just ignorant, sometimes they are using bravado to mask their own pain, sometimes they just want attention. I find that unless it is someone who you can actually have an honest conversation with and ask them why they feel that way, its best to just not pay attention to it in the first place.
Like a spent gladiator
crawling in the colosseum dust
who can count on his remaining limbs
all the people he can trust.
Like the one who stands behind him
cheering him on
Estatic when he stands defiant,
wild with abandon when he's gone
just stay alive.
do whatever you need to.
you are worth it.