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#340958 - 09/27/10 04:59 PM Re: Hey, I'm new [Re: westsidej]
EvanCan Offline

Registered: 09/09/10
Posts: 170
Hello, thisyearsguy.
You are a wise man for addressing this issue so early in your life.
Many of us "old guys" wish we had started sooner, to spare us many of the pitfalls.
You are brave and strong.
Keep up the great work.

Hope Springs 2010 WoR Alumnus
"I'm here, and I'm on the mend."

#428878 - 03/23/13 11:53 PM Re: Hey, I'm new [Re: thisyearsguy]
wearytraveler Offline

Registered: 01/12/13
Posts: 49
Loc: Seattle

Edited by wearytraveler (11/10/13 07:09 AM)
I left thinking I was stuck in the past, realizing that while past is not who I am, it has made contributions. It is not something that I fear, this site helped me face things perhaps running from it helped me realize that embracing my past has helped me let things go.

#430275 - 04/05/13 09:24 PM Re: Hey, I'm new [Re: thisyearsguy]
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Registered: 04/05/13
Posts: 68
Yeah I understand why it's hard to tell. Some people have a special status in the family or community and it's our word against their good name. Sometimes the pain of telling and not taken serious is worst than what we actually went through. And not everything the guys did was all hurtful too. Like you said. For me there were some guys that were way over eighteen and I was under eighteen. And they didn't hurt me. But it was still statutory rape and wrong. But I sware if I knew their names, addresses, and dates of birth today, i'd never turn them in. The guys who violated me anally from fifteen and so young under I think I'll never know the real age it started. Them I'd turn in though. I don't mean to be long winded. I just wanted to express that I relate to the nature of the things you said. And say hi too. Ttyl dude.

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