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#429971 - 04/03/13 01:27 PM All Due Respect
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In dealing with the local career perp and trying to change my town's policies and ordinances in order to protect the children, I've come to realize something...maybe I'm wrong...but maybe you all can weigh-in if you wish.

I see respect being both present and absent in our CSA arena.

I see respect being bestowed upon the guy in the orange suit and handcuffs. I see him receiving 'concern for his health.' I see society ensuring he has rights and humane treatment.

I hear society offering default respect to the perps. I point to Sandusky as an example.

Except for within our CSA arena, I see and hear no real respect for the victims.
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#429972 - 04/03/13 01:30 PM Re: All Due Respect [Re: Still]
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Out of sight, out of mind. Thats how western society has approached CSA for a long time.

Things are changing, slowly, but they are changing.

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#429973 - 04/03/13 01:44 PM Re: All Due Respect [Re: Poorsoft]
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Originally Posted By: Poorsoft
Out of sight, out of mind. Thats how western society has approached CSA for a long time.

Things are changing, slowly, but they are changing.



Very true. As I read of historic treatment of child abuse, the more I worry. It is clear that due attention to the safety and value of children actually varies according to the stresses of society.

For example: During a mega economic depression or food shortage or war, CSA goes nearly fully unseen and always un-prosecuted. Child protection seems almost a luxury for a strong society. As social fabric decays, CSA bolsters.
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#429975 - 04/03/13 02:02 PM . [Re: Still]
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#429976 - 04/03/13 02:05 PM . [Re: Still]
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#429978 - 04/03/13 02:11 PM . [Re: Still]
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#429982 - 04/03/13 02:28 PM Re: All Due Respect [Re: Still]
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@ LAD

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Anybody else notice they're all into the whole "life-coach" thing? All the real perps I've known are very into life-coaching.


OMG! He's SO brave! He is overcoming SO much! Wow! You just gotta respect THAT!


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God has forgiven him for so much, and how I need to forget the past. Yeah, forget the past.


Well....LAD....come on!!!! Look at Perppy! Look what HE'S done. Look at the bravery and strength it takes to overcome THAT!

And the sad thing here...its all true.

When I was in a locked-ward once, I invoked anger from a nurse and a T during a circle group. I was having some really harsh flashbacks and breaking-down for hours at a time...even days. They told me I "need to forgive the perps." I mean they got right in my face...yelling at me and freaking me out.

I told them I already had...they said "no...you don't fully forgive them, else you would not be so messed-up."

Oh...OK...its ALL about forgiveness! Nothing about 7 years of sexual-psychotic treatment from older devils...no...its just the forgiveness. I only piss myself during flashbacks cuz I have not fully forgiven. My neck and back muscles only spasm and contort my head cuz I have not fully forgiven them.

Let me write a fucking CSA book with all THAT knowledge!!!!

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#429986 - 04/03/13 02:33 PM Re: All Due Respect [Re: Life's A Dream]
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Originally Posted By: Life's A Dream
My dad watches the show COPS and laughs at the prostitutes and calls them "skanks" and "dumb bitches". He never stops to consider their history- that 90% of prostitutes were molested.


Does ANYONE honestly think these women and men CHOOSE to be prostitutes?

"Hmmmm...college and career and family and shit like that......ORrrr....Prostitution. Hmmmmm.....tough one.....
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#430004 - 04/03/13 05:09 PM . [Re: Still]
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#430005 - 04/03/13 05:13 PM . [Re: Still]
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