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#429210 - 03/26/13 04:56 PM As bad as yesterday was, this day is Great.
Zug Offline


Registered: 02/18/13
Posts: 56
Loc: Progress
So yesterday sucked, bad. Today I went to VA on whim-i also had borrowed a car for the day- and walked into the director of the hospital's office and handled business in a way I have not been able to since I fell apart and my career ended. I calmly told about mistreatment by staff, proceedural issues that hurt us, etc. I have no idea where that poise and courage came from. As bad as I felt yesterday, I feel that good today, if that makes sense. This feels good. I,would,have gone to chat with this but I cant chat on this site w phone and laptop died. Thank all of you for listening and just being there, this is comfusing.
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"what matters most is how well you walk through the fire"
-Charles Bukowski


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#429239 - 03/26/13 10:51 PM Re: As bad as yesterday was, this day is Great. [Re: Zug]
SoccerStar Offline
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Registered: 10/15/12
Posts: 915
Loc: New York
High-five, Zug!

I'm so glad you were able to stand up for yourself. You've described some really tough times recently and I can only imagine the pride you must have felt. You deserve an advocate - and if it has to be you, then so be it.


Matt
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"Don't think it hasn't been a little slice of heaven just because it hasn't!" --Bugs Bunny

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#429241 - 03/26/13 10:57 PM Re: As bad as yesterday was, this day is Great. [Re: Zug]
traveler Offline
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Registered: 02/07/06
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good to hear that, Zug!

hope it brings you some positive results beyond feeling better about yourself - some practical help, treatment, correction of wrongs - whatever.

lee
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We are often troubled, but not crushed;
sometimes in doubt, but never in despair;
there are many enemies, but we are never without a friend;
and though badly hurt at times, we are not destroyed.
- Paul, II Cor 4:8-9

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#429287 - 03/27/13 10:37 AM Re: As bad as yesterday was, this day is Great. [Re: Zug]
Jude Offline


Registered: 08/09/12
Posts: 1370
Loc: New England
Hey Zug,

It took alot of courage and determination to do that. You are definitely making progress. Keep it up man.

Jude
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"When I was a child
I caught a fleeting glimpse
Out of the corner of my eye
I turned to look but it was gone
I cannot put my finger on it now
The child is grown, the dream is gone
And I have become comfortably numb."
Pink Floyd

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