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#431382 - 04/16/13 12:19 AM Re: Question for those with DID - Fight Club [Re: lbcali1978]
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Originally Posted By: lbcali1978
I sometimes blacked out and lost large chunks of my days. But I pretty much stopped that area of exploration with them.

Yes, this could well be DID. But I will not press you on this until you are willing to pursue it.
Originally Posted By: ibcali1978

But I'm not knocking them at all. I just don't like how the world views it. So I personally stopped exploring that line of diagnosis. Hope I made some sense there. I believe it's a legitimate condition.


It's OK to express yourself like that. Actually most DIDs at some point or another feel very threatened. I did. I felt threatened because the perp threatened me with a knife and torture, saying that if I ever told, he would find me and kill me...This is what it would feel like to be killed...{torture...torture} That's what he said, whether it was correct or not.

Puffer

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#431383 - 04/16/13 12:26 AM Re: Question for those with DID - Fight Club [Re: pufferfish]
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#431403 - 04/16/13 06:32 AM " [Re: pufferfish]
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Edited by lbcali1978 (04/29/13 12:09 AM)
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They said

Come home

I said

I'm confused and alone

They said

We understand

I found out they don't

I'll walk the path exactly how I've always done it

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#431404 - 04/16/13 06:34 AM " [Re: pufferfish]
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Edited by lbcali1978 (04/29/13 12:07 AM)
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They said

Come home

I said

I'm confused and alone

They said

We understand

I found out they don't

I'll walk the path exactly how I've always done it

Alone

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#431430 - 04/16/13 11:19 AM Re: Question for those with DID - Fight Club [Re: lbcali1978]
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Originally Posted By: lbcali1978
I just have too much on my plate to open up to another life of unknown things. Sometimes I get tired of fighting


I certainly understand this. I have had a similar reaction in that the abuse when I was 12 was so massive that it took years of counseling time and I couldn't look to other issues from other years.

Puffer



Edited by pufferfish (04/16/13 11:22 AM)

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#431486 - 04/16/13 08:24 PM " [Re: pufferfish]
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Edited by lbcali1978 (04/29/13 12:07 AM)
_________________________
They said

Come home

I said

I'm confused and alone

They said

We understand

I found out they don't

I'll walk the path exactly how I've always done it

Alone

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#431528 - 04/17/13 03:14 AM Re: Question for those with DID - Fight Club [Re: lbcali1978]
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Originally Posted By: lbcali1978
Yes. Exactly even my T will tell me to move at my own pace. But sometimes he gets a little impatient when I don't want to address issues. I want to argue, but I have to remind myself he's just human too. He sees things about me I'm not aware of yet. So he has to slow down to let me get there. If I have DID. It just may take a fews years to accept it probably.

Question though (this is off topic)

What is the primary reason the mod team wont remove survivor stories when requested to? I can accept them staying but I'd like to know why they have to.


it was probably just an oversight. Try again. Send a message direct to puffer or another mod rather than the generic mod team account.


Edited by Jacob S (04/17/13 03:19 AM)
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"As long as the child within is not allowed to become aware of what happened to him or her, a part of his or her emotional life will remain frozen . . . all appeals to love, solidarity, and compassion will be useless."
-- Alice Miller

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#431619 - 04/17/13 11:20 PM Re: Question for those with DID - Fight Club [Re: Jacob S]
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My healing was/is greatly slowed down by the massive abuse when I was 12. It took many years just to deal with that.

Puffer

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#431814 - 04/20/13 12:39 AM " [Re: pufferfish]
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Edited by lbcali1978 (04/29/13 12:08 AM)
_________________________
They said

Come home

I said

I'm confused and alone

They said

We understand

I found out they don't

I'll walk the path exactly how I've always done it

Alone

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