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All I can say is have a good time. Don't rush it if you both have the time.


That's great. You get to ask as many dumb questions as you like and it will be OK. So ASK. Think being a kid and having the exploring curiosity.

I don't think it's inappropriate to post this here. Why would it be? I would say try to go into the experience with no expectations. Just go for it and see what happens. If it's awesome, than great! If it's a little to weird and not that great, try not to be to let down. I would also say try not to focus to much on whether or not it brings up any memories. If something pops up than fine but then that may also ruin the experience.

When you say this should be a "grass filled" experience do you mean you plan on smoking weed with her first? Not that I have a problem with that but I always found that weed or intoxication of any kind made it even harder for me to preform with a woman than it already is for me. When I was dating my one and only girlfriend ever, it got to the point where she made sure we had sex before we did any partying, because once I was f'ed up, she knew there was no chance I was going to have sex with her. Weed affects different people differently though so maybe it won't be a problem for you.

Oh, and WARP IT UP! Or make SURE she's on the pill. Remember, babies ruin lives! LOL! Peace.

Ken

Remember: "A tisket, a tasket, a condom or a casket."

Good luck!

Let's remember that "it" is supposed to be the ultimate emblem of true love. That's something a lot of us have lost sight of because we were not treated with love.

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Dude, I'm sorry. That's fucked up! Did she say why she cancelled on you? Could it be she has a legit reason and you guys could reschedule the get-together? I know, probably not but hopefully the next time you talk to her she'll have some kind of explanation.

Don't feel like you're not good enough for woman just because one beeotch stood you up. If you want a relationship or even just a experimental sexual experience with a woman, there is someone out there for you. Don't give up hope of that.

Oh, and as far as sex mixed with pot goes, everyone is different. For some people pot makes sex better. For me, it makes it impossible. The thing is, pot enhances everything. If you're totally comfortable with sex and get great pleasure from it, pot will probably enhance that. If you have CSA issues that get in the way of sex, it can enhance those to. Personally, I can have a great time with a sex toy after smoking some pot but if I'm stoned with a woman I can never get it up, not even with a suck-start. It's like a cold, dead, eraser down there. Stoned sex? No thank you. At that point I'd much rahter just curl up on the sofa, eat Doritos and watch South Park.

Hey man, definitely let us know what happens with this. Surely she's going to have some kind of excuse, whether it's legit or not. You never know, it could still happen. Keep us posted. Peace,

Ken