That's an important thing to keep in mind, both on facebook and really across the entire web.
I don't put anything on facebook that I wouldn't want the world to see, even though I also actively monitor my security settings. Actually, I *try* to do that with every site most of the time, but its especially important on sites where I use my full name. This site is a little bit of an exception in order to feel free in processing my healing, but that's why none of you know my last name.
"As long as the child within is not allowed to become aware of what happened to him or her, a part of his or her emotional life will remain frozen . . . all appeals to love, solidarity, and compassion will be useless."
-- Alice Miller