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#428047 - 03/14/13 04:30 PM Re: Prepubescent Sexual Victimization/Violation [Re: Coach]
BuffaloCO Offline


Registered: 07/14/12
Posts: 412
Loc: USA
By the time I was around 8, 5 men had used me. Another tried but did not get away with it. That put my programming in place even into college, where profs also had their fun. But I got into T and am not being played anymore. Will get back to school and this time will be safe.
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“We can easily forgive a child who is afraid of the dark. The real tragedy of life is when men are afraid of the light.” - Plato

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#428048 - 03/14/13 04:47 PM Re: Prepubescent Sexual Victimization/Violation [Re: BuffaloCO]
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Registered: 02/26/08
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Loc: USA


Edited by pufferfish (03/14/13 04:48 PM)

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#428049 - 03/14/13 04:52 PM Re: Prepubescent Sexual Victimization/Violation [Re: pufferfish]
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#428052 - 03/14/13 06:00 PM Re: Prepubescent Sexual Victimization/Violation [Re: Coach]
SoccerStar Offline
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Registered: 10/15/12
Posts: 915
Loc: New York
"Matt and the Terrible, Horrible, No-Good, Very Bad Day," starring me aged 8.
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"Don't think it hasn't been a little slice of heaven just because it hasn't!" --Bugs Bunny

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#428056 - 03/14/13 06:21 PM Re: Prepubescent Sexual Victimization/Violation [Re: Coach]
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Edited by bodyguard8367 (02/26/14 09:33 PM)
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#428059 - 03/14/13 06:54 PM Re: Prepubescent Sexual Victimization/Violation [Re: Coach]
Farmer Boy Offline
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Registered: 08/23/12
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Loc: Australia
Me...I was 3 when it first started and about 6 when it got really bad. For me there is no before. I always was and am trying hard not to continue to be a sexual play thing for other males.

By 6 I was well trained and that was just the beginning..... puberty bought with it a whole new set of problems.

Lee
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#428070 - 03/14/13 08:43 PM Re: Prepubescent Sexual Victimization/Violation [Re: Farmer Boy]
pufferfish Offline
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I was still 3 also. Victimization at that age caused dissociative disorder and a lot of other symptoms.

Puffer

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#428076 - 03/14/13 09:04 PM Re: Prepubescent Sexual Victimization/Violation [Re: Coach]
traveler Offline
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Registered: 02/07/06
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started at 5 1/2 and continued till 13 - so both pre- and also during puberty. another incident at about 15-16 after i thought it was over. still in the same unhealthy atmosphere until 18, though no overt activity.
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We are often troubled, but not crushed;
sometimes in doubt, but never in despair;
there are many enemies, but we are never without a friend;
and though badly hurt at times, we are not destroyed.
- Paul, II Cor 4:8-9

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#428088 - 03/14/13 10:55 PM Re: Prepubescent Sexual Victimization/Violation [Re: Coach]
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Registered: 06/07/11
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Edited by lapchinj (03/17/13 10:19 AM)
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It will get better....

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#428104 - 03/15/13 12:32 AM Re: Prepubescent Sexual Victimization/Violation [Re: Coach]
Jacob S Offline
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Registered: 01/01/13
Posts: 550
I don't f*cking know right now. The feelings are all outside the black box, the source is still wrapped up inside. Sometimes I feel like I remember less but hurt more as time goes on.
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"As long as the child within is not allowed to become aware of what happened to him or her, a part of his or her emotional life will remain frozen . . . all appeals to love, solidarity, and compassion will be useless."
-- Alice Miller

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