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#428111 - 03/15/13 01:53 AM Re: Prepubescent Sexual Victimization/Violation [Re: Coach]
crazy gecko Offline

Registered: 10/04/12
Posts: 309
Physical abuse was from before I can remember. Sexual abuse by my father started at around 4 and continued until he went to prison (Not CSA related) when I was 13. By then I was already well into puberty, and yup, that changed everything. Foster father also resorted to sexual abuse when I was 16...

Edit: I should learn to add... that some time before I reached puberty, there was also some sexual abuse from my older brother. (Damn, that was hard to type out...)

Edited by crazy gecko (03/15/13 01:53 AM)
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#428113 - 03/15/13 02:42 AM . [Re: Jacob S]
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Registered: 08/25/11
Posts: 886
Loc: Bouvet Island

Edited by Life's A Dream (04/21/13 10:48 PM)

#428272 - 03/16/13 11:25 PM Re: Prepubescent Sexual Victimization/Violation [Re: Coach]
Chase Eric Offline

Registered: 10/25/10
Posts: 1936
I was twelve, my sister was seven and most of the other victims - all girls - were 7-8. The molester was a next door boy of 16. Always sexual intercourse, never oral. I spent my childhood trying to keep him off my little sister while at the same time keeping everyone's secrets - mine, my sister's and my molester's.

It took me years to learn the damage it caused. It taught me to carry a significant sense of self-doubt, to compulsively keep secrets even when there was absolutely no dishonesty or need to do so, and to quietly allow others to step into the power positions in my life. See my thread on Patterns for an example.

Click my pic to see why I'm here.

#428274 - 03/17/13 12:01 AM . [Re: Chase Eric]
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Registered: 08/25/11
Posts: 886
Loc: Bouvet Island

Edited by Life's A Dream (04/21/13 10:51 PM)

#485065 - 07/05/15 10:17 PM Re: . [Re: Coach]
gettingstronger Online   content

Registered: 09/24/13
Posts: 255
Loc: Virginia
Out of curiosity, I went to the "who's online" page and saw that an anonymous person was looking at this thread. Thank you, whoever you are! I didn't know it was here as the last post was a few years ago.

My own little slice of hell began at about age six. Then molestation, bullying, all sorts of issues happening all at once, both in and outside home, and undiagnosed ADD. By high school, I had experienced severe sexual damage from a husband and wife (age 6,) then serial molestation for years from an older neighborhood boy (until about 13?) followed by an unsuccessful attempt made by a much older male neighbor while I was in high school. But yeah, my entire CONCEPT of sex, the human body, intimacy, male friendship, trust, power, volition, and on and on either ceased to exist (around the time of the first incident at age 6) or were just disfigured beyond belief.

So, so much to work on....


Edited by gettingstronger (07/05/15 10:23 PM)

#485100 - Yesterday at 05:50 PM Re: . [Re: Coach]
lapchinj Offline

Registered: 06/07/11
Posts: 1355
Loc: New York
Hey Bob

Yes, I also had a long history of abuse and there is a lot to work on but at least we made it here with a bunch of great guys willing to help

Unfortunately for LADD who's avatar you see just before your entry didn't make it, RIP.

Good luck

Peace, Rainbows, Love, Healing & Hope
Stick around, It will get better....

#485110 - Yesterday at 10:53 PM Re: . [Re: Coach]
BuffaloCO Offline

Registered: 07/14/12
Posts: 478
Loc: USA
Trafficked ages 5 to 9 as I was traded around between 7 men, and my pattern was set after that till I found my "T". I am no longer defined by them, what they did or what they tried to convince me I was by what they said. I AM FREE.
“We can easily forgive a child who is afraid of the dark. The real tragedy of life is when men are afraid of the light.” - Plato

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