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#427485 - 03/08/13 12:52 PM a
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Edited by lbcali1978 (04/16/13 06:08 AM)

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#427486 - 03/08/13 12:55 PM a [Re: lbcali1978]
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Edited by lbcali1978 (04/16/13 06:09 AM)
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They said

Come home

I said

I'm confused and alone

They said

We understand

I found out they don't

I'll walk the path exactly how I've always done it

Alone

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#427488 - 03/08/13 01:37 PM Re: Triggers Possible...Real or Not [Re: lbcali1978]
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I think MS is "more safe" than the Internet as a whole, but I worry about somebody getting off on real world pain.

I went back and forth before I finally disclosed on here what happened. Nothing but good results from finally telling. If somebody gets a thrill from that, they have bigger problems than I do. What I fear more is someone deliberately trying to trigger us for their enjoyment. That's a new level of sick re-victimization...

Will
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#427492 - 03/08/13 02:42 PM Re: Triggers Possible...Real or Not [Re: lbcali1978]
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There are definitely people here who have been exposed as fakes and banned for it. I can think of two cases in particular, and each of their stories were particularly ghastly high-octane triggerfests that severely alarmed many people reading them - including me.

Well, their stories are still up here as emotional boobytraps. I don't know why the mods don't at least put a new signifier under the screen name - BANNED or FAKE or LIAR - so people will know not to waste their trust and sympathy.


Matt
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#427495 - 03/08/13 03:41 PM Re: Triggers Possible...Real or Not [Re: lbcali1978]
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Its a very very real problem. It cost me dearly. And I will never forget it BTW!!!
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#427506 - 03/08/13 05:52 PM Re: Triggers Possible...Real or Not [Re: lbcali1978]
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I guess fakes and liars are all over the internet, no matter where you go. Shit, look at the Manti Te'o situation and how far that went. It's absolutely astounding the lengths people will go to when the "payoff" is getting to live out some bizarre and/or sick fantasy on-line. However, I see screwing around with CSA survivors as being a lot worse morally than convincing an NCAA linebacker, who is an idiot, that you're some dying chick he's in love with. (Although that was pretty sick and cruel itself.)

You would think most pedos would avoid a place like this, because I think most of them want to live in the deluded fantasy that their actions do not cause harm, and that the things they've done and/or want to do to children weren't/aren't really abusive. You'd think they'd mostly stick to sites where they can swap fabricated and/or embellished stories that reinforce that belief and not have to be burdened with hearing the very real pain that such actions have caused people. I could be wrong though. Or, I could be mostly right and there is a certain breed of predator that actually gets off on the pain and turmoil they have caused instead of living in denial/delusion about it.

For people that may be here and fit into that latter category, well, what can you really do? I suppose that's one of those things you just have to release to the universe and hope that karma gets them in the end. Or that they auto-erotically asphyxiate themselves to death in the process of getting their jollies here. That would be kind of funny. Not that we'd ever know it happened, but it's a nice thought. Peace.

Ken


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#427605 - 03/09/13 06:13 PM " [Re: BraveFalcon]
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Edited by lbcali1978 (04/28/13 11:43 PM)

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#427606 - 03/09/13 06:19 PM a [Re: Still]
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Edited by lbcali1978 (04/16/13 06:10 AM)
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They said

Come home

I said

I'm confused and alone

They said

We understand

I found out they don't

I'll walk the path exactly how I've always done it

Alone

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#427608 - 03/09/13 07:23 PM Re: Triggers Possible...Real or Not [Re: lbcali1978]
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We can't avoid talking about some triggering issues sometimes, it is only important to put sign "trigger warning" to be visible for others and it is OK wink
We know why are we here and what to expect...

Pero
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#432340 - 04/25/13 02:24 AM " [Re: SoccerStar]
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Edited by lbcali1978 (04/28/13 11:45 PM)
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They said

Come home

I said

I'm confused and alone

They said

We understand

I found out they don't

I'll walk the path exactly how I've always done it

Alone

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