If you are pretty new here, it can be very difficult. There are a lot of unanswered questions to ponder over. These are a few links to stuff I found,

http://www.menweb.org/sexabupg.htm

http://www.utexas.edu/student/cmhc/booklets/maleassault/menassault.html

and one on memory loss,

http://www.uvss.uvic.ca/avp/memory.htm

hope they help,

ste

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