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#425132 - 02/13/13 01:54 AM Re: Victim Rant [Re: Still]
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too bitchy on my part....edited out to space.


Edited by Still (02/13/13 05:54 AM)
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#425135 - 02/13/13 02:35 AM Re: Victim Rant [Re: Lancer]
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. was too bitchy . WAY sorry


Edited by Still (02/13/13 05:53 AM)
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#425163 - 02/13/13 08:57 AM Re: Victim Rant [Re: Still]
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Hay Still,
thanks for clarifying your situation. It make a lot more sence now. I supose I have to fight for the right to be broken and damaged. It is the way that it is. Some thing just can't be comprehended with out a reference. It's like this site, you eather belong or you don't. If you belong it's because your world has been shattered.
Who goes around telling people brutally disfigured and maimed in an accident to get over it. Not helpful. We look to normal for our own good.

Sorry for the negativity, I guess I got in touch with my iner victim state. Now I have anger, odd.

I got angry when I typed sorry, maybe I am tired of apologizing and pretending so other people can feel that they're right. So they don't get pulled down by my incompetents.

OK, so I am at a place where I am unable to work with any real success. I feel like I will get it all back and move forward. And then like clock work the bottom falls out again. Reminders are every were that I can't ...... Is this what they mean by VM? Ok fine I am a victim. A lot was taken from me, I was and still am the loser in the equation. I want to resign the position. I want to be happy and prosperous, but that not working out to well for me right now. Maybe next month.

We keep doing the work and moving forward.
May it pay off soon!


Edited by SmartShadow (02/13/13 03:38 PM)

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#425170 - 02/13/13 11:45 AM Re: Victim Rant [Re: Still]
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Hay Still,
I am realy sory you have had so much pain,
And the divorce, man I am so sorry sounds like you lost every thing.
I watched my parents go through a supper nasty version. It destroyed every thing.
Seams like my dad was adle to move on eventually.

More later

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#425171 - 02/13/13 12:29 PM Re: Victim Rant [Re: SmartShadow]
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Originally Posted By: SmartShadow
the right to be broken and damaged.


By George! I think we've got it. THAT is the articulation I (and likely others) have been trying to come up with.

FK DUDE!!!!! That's IT exactly!!!!!!!

the right to be broken and damaged.

The X Ammendment to The Survivor's Constitution:

The right of the abused to be broken and damaged shall not be infringed nor shall it be used or perverted against him in life. We recognize that there is actual and lasting damage of varying degrees, unique to each survivor, important and significant to each survivor. That broad characterizations such as Victim Mentality labels are potentially damaging and dangerously trivializing, if not agressive in attack.
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#425190 - 02/13/13 02:36 PM Re: Victim Rant [Re: Still]
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The power of the rant. And what others can see that we can't. This is very empowering for me, When I stand in this truth, I feel less like a victom. Maybe it is the first step in standing up for our self. A push back agenced the ignorance that keeps us quite and alone. Thanks for getting this.


Edited by SmartShadow (02/13/13 02:44 PM)

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#425193 - 02/13/13 02:48 PM Re: Victim Rant [Re: Still]
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Wow


Originally Posted By: Still

The right of the abused to be broken and damaged shall not be infringed nor shall it be used or perverted against him in life. We recognize that there is actual and lasting damage of varying degrees, unique to each survivor, important and significant to each survivor. That broad characterizations such as Victim Mentality labels are potentially damaging and dangerously trivializing, if not agressive in attack.


This is brilliant!

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#425224 - 02/13/13 07:59 PM Re: Victim Rant [Re: Still]
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Well....YOU originated that "Amendment X."

John Hancock (12-yo snicker) wrote "Amendment Y" to the Survivor's Constitution.

A survivor of Childhood Sexual Abuse has the God-given right to be believed when disclosing, protected when disclosed, and treated with all due reverence when in need of help.


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#425225 - 02/13/13 08:01 PM Re: Victim Rant [Re: Still]
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This is a grand opportunity for all to weigh-in with input on a potential CSA Survivor's Bill Of Rights. not kidding.
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#425226 - 02/13/13 08:14 PM Re: Victim Rant [Re: Still]
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The right to be angry.
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