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#42499 - 07/30/02 04:47 AM Introducing myself!
arghilles Offline
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Registered: 07/26/02
Posts: 45
Loc: Stockholm, Sweden
Hi!

I just basically wanted to say hi and tell everyone that I am a new memeber to the group.
I am 30 years old, married and have a two year old daughter.
I was sexually abused by my father from about five and then also through my teens. I have many issues to deal with. I have tried to heal for many years, but it is hard and very time consuming. I am also very scared.

/Erik

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#42500 - 07/30/02 07:29 AM Re: Introducing myself!
arghilles Offline
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Registered: 07/26/02
Posts: 45
Loc: Stockholm, Sweden
Thank you Brian!

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#42501 - 07/30/02 11:16 AM Re: Introducing myself!
The Dean Offline
Moderator Emeritus
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Registered: 07/15/02
Posts: 2080
Loc: Milwaukee, WI
Hi and Welcome
Check your profile for messages as well
We are all a bit afraid. But the guys on this forum are great and we can trust the care and honesty of each other. I think that you will thank God or whoever, that you have come to NOMSV Erik.
Bob

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If we do not live what we believe, then we will begin to believe what we live.

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#42502 - 07/30/02 12:32 PM Re: Introducing myself!
SoCalJohn Offline
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Registered: 05/18/01
Posts: 510
Loc: Los Angeles, California
welcome to the homestead, this is a good place and lots of good people here, glad you found your way here, damn sorry any of us need to be here.

John

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I asked him about this law he spoke of, he said,,, *watch* he then asked the others to share about their lives,,, the others talked of how things were for them, how things worked in their lives,,, and as they believed, it was so.

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#42503 - 07/30/02 01:00 PM Re: Introducing myself!
Ken Followell Offline
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Registered: 12/30/01
Posts: 990
Loc: Bradenton, FL
Welcome Erik. This is a great place for healing. I know the time difference may make it hard but try to make it by the chatroom. It helps.

Ken

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Everything works out right in the end. If things are not working right, it isn't the end yet. Don't let it bother you, relax and keep on goin
- Michael C. Muhammad

"I get up. I walk. I fall down. Meanwhile, I keep dancing."
� Rabbi Hillel

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#42504 - 07/30/02 01:32 PM Re: Introducing myself!
Lloydy Offline
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Registered: 04/17/02
Posts: 7071
Loc: England Shropshire
Hi Erik
We get more international by the day, but abuse knows no boundaries, and neither does healing.

Lloydy \:\)

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Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you've imagined. As you simplify your life, the laws of the universe will be simpler.
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#42505 - 07/30/02 10:04 PM Re: Introducing myself!
Spider-man Offline
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Registered: 04/27/02
Posts: 57
Loc: NY
Welcome Arghilles.
We might not be therapists, but we can pester you so you know you're not alone :-D


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#42506 - 07/31/02 03:11 AM Re: Introducing myself!
Eddie Offline
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Registered: 07/31/02
Posts: 25
Loc: Cub Hill, Md
Erik,
Hi and welcome...PTSD will make us all scared at times...sometime all of the time...but time is the killer of fear...Hang in there!!!

Eddie


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#42507 - 07/31/02 07:29 AM Re: Introducing myself!
arghilles Offline
Member

Registered: 07/26/02
Posts: 45
Loc: Stockholm, Sweden
Hi!

I am quite overwhelmed by the big welcome, I didn't expect to get any reply. I am really happy for that. It seems like you really do care in this group. That means that we have a chance to heal, isn't that so??

Thank you all!
/Erik

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#42508 - 07/31/02 10:14 PM Re: Introducing myself!
Eddie Offline
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Registered: 07/31/02
Posts: 25
Loc: Cub Hill, Md
Erik,
There is a very good chance of everyone here being healed...didn't think so a year ago or even a month ago but it all clicks together..I think that it is being able to relate to other SA males with the same problems!!! At frist you feel like the only guy screwed up like this...not being alone gives you the power to carry-on...like a rag-tag army slowly making it's way home! Just hang in there...sometime it has to get wrost before it gets better...get a good therapist experienced with Male SA and do it a day at a time. Go back and read my old Getteddie posts...starting last year...not to hard to see changes!

Eddie


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