ghrider89, welcome - what a loving wife you are
Joining Forces, a brand new book for male CSAs but i've found it's particularly great for family and spouses. it might also reveal a little of what the road ahead could look like; it will not be an easy or quick road once the secrets out. my journey as a female CSA has finally come full circle after 10+ years and i even work in the human service profession - the journey for males has many more deminsions to it. best of luck to you and him and your new family.