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#424009 - 02/01/13 04:04 PM new guy
nicholas1 Offline

Registered: 01/30/13
Posts: 1
Loc: Arizona
Hi there. Wish I could say I'm glad to be here, but I'm not. Wish none of this had ever happened to any of us.
I thought I was doing OK after some therapy years ago, but recently happened across an article about RA Dickey and that really triggered me.
Thank you all for being here.

#424010 - 02/01/13 04:08 PM Re: new guy [Re: nicholas1]
cant_remember Offline

Registered: 02/26/05
Posts: 1039
We're here for you, brother.

None of us want to be here, but we make each other stronger. Welcome aboard.

Recovery is possible. Hang in there, brothers.

#424011 - 02/01/13 04:11 PM Re: new guy [Re: cant_remember]
Still Offline

Registered: 02/16/07
Posts: 6376
Loc: 2.5 NATO Nations
Originally Posted By: cant_remember
We're here for you, brother.

None of us want to be here, but we make each other stronger. Welcome aboard.


Don't wanna be here, but I'm VERY glad here is here....cuz there is no one else who gets it. So glad you found us.
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#424072 - 02/02/13 12:38 PM Re: new guy [Re: nicholas1]
Mountainous Buck Offline

Registered: 12/15/09
Posts: 1626
Loc: Minnesota

Glad you did find us- make yourself at home and look around so you can take advantage of all the good helpful stuff here.
We have to take responsibility for what we're not responsible for.

It doesn't matter where you've come from,
It matters where you go" Frank Turner

#424251 - 02/04/13 01:33 PM Re: new guy [Re: nicholas1]
Jude Offline

Registered: 08/09/12
Posts: 1489
Loc: New England
Welcome Nicholas1. You are among friends who "get it". Use this site as much as you can manage and you will be helped. Whatever triggered you probably had a purpose in bringing you here for additional healing.

"But now old friends are acting strange,
they shake their heads, they say I've changed.
Something's lost but something's gained in living every day's life's illusions I recall, I really don't know life at all. "
Joni Mitchell

#424295 - 02/04/13 06:52 PM Re: new guy [Re: nicholas1]
pbert53 Offline
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Registered: 10/26/09
Posts: 576
Loc: Washington, USA

i am glad you are here, even though the reason isn't the best circumstances. i have found this site to be a safe and comfortable place to talk to others of like minds.

There is no rush to do anything here. Take your time and get acquainted with the site and what it has to offer. Post when you feel you are ready.

take care


If you cannot control what happens to you, you can control your attitude toward what happens to you, and in that, you will be mastering change rather than allowing it to master you.

~ adapted from: Sri Ram

#424322 - 02/05/13 12:03 AM Re: new guy [Re: nicholas1]
Elissa Offline

Registered: 01/20/13
Posts: 7
Welcome Nicholas1

Yes...we are all here for you. It is a useful site with many kind and understanding people who all understand.

Take your time...I too had thought I had dealt with my past years ago, but the past two years have brought it back stronger than ever so I found this site under the same circumstances.

Take care!


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