(((( Bob ))))
I understand what you were trying to do, and I've been guilty of it myself here. So don't think you're alone in saying what you feel, only to have those honest feelings upset others.
We all have our learning moments here when we realize how raw everything is here. Like I said, I've had mine.
Jason, how are you doing?
"There is a Catskill eagle in some souls that can alike dive down into the blackest gorges, and soar out of them again and become invisible in the sunny spaces... even in his lowest swoop the mountain eagle is still higher than other birds upon the plain, even though they soar." -- from Moby-Dick