I made the mistake of reading through the comments... Grrrr. My blood is boiling!!
Yeah, any website frequented by anyone in the Penn State region is unfortunately enemy territory these days. Obviously not that they are all jerks, but there are enough bozos out there that sooner or later the insensitive and the just plain cruel parts of the community will make themselves known.
"As long as the child within is not allowed to become aware of what happened to him or her, a part of his or her emotional life will remain frozen . . . all appeals to love, solidarity, and compassion will be useless."
-- Alice Miller