I made the mistake of reading through the comments... Grrrr. My blood is boiling!!
Yeah, any website frequented by anyone in the Penn State region is unfortunately enemy territory these days. Obviously not that they are all jerks, but there are enough bozos out there that sooner or later the insensitive and the just plain cruel parts of the community will make themselves known.
I come here now, and I see lots of anger.
I don't blame anyone for that. It is perfectly understandable.
But it is not healthy for me.
So I'm going somewhere else.
Goodbye and good healing.