I know how hard it is to break the silence, it took me 42 years to do so. But the trade off is that by letting it out you will open the door to greater healing. Take your time, don't be pressured. But don't wait a lifetime either. You will know when its right.
"And it's run for the roses as fast as you can
Your fate is delivered, your moment's at hand
It's the chance of a lifetime, in a lifetime of chance
And it's high time you joined in the dance"-Dan Fogelberg