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#422746 - 01/20/13 07:21 PM new member
CrushedHeart Offline


Registered: 01/20/13
Posts: 1
Hi my name is Danny & I'm a new member led to this site by a news article. I'm trying to survive the after shock of abuse that me & my children suffered from my father, as well as the abandonment & reaction to me from the rest of my family members. I'm trying to keep moving on a path of healing for me & my family and trying to navigate all the feelings I have in relation to this. Hopefully this site my help. Peace!

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#422769 - 01/20/13 09:14 PM Re: new member [Re: CrushedHeart]
SamV Offline
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Registered: 12/13/09
Posts: 4707
Loc: Talladega, Alabama, USA
Hello Danny and welcome to MaleSurvivor,

We are glad you found us although your journey here was overwhelming, we personally have experienced relief and support here. Keep recovering Danny, keep seeking calm and comfort, they are yours to have, you and your children deserve them.

I look forward to your posts helping us better understand your situation.

Sam
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#422783 - 01/20/13 11:23 PM Re: new member [Re: CrushedHeart]
traveler Offline


Registered: 02/07/06
Posts: 2449
Loc: overseas
Welcome, Danny -

it sounds like you have a lot to deal with right now.
it is a rough road - and trying to find your way is often overwhelming.
but this MS site and these people can help.
hope you find the same encouragement and support that i have here.

Lee
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They have greatly oppressed me from my youth, but they have not gained the victory over me.
Plowmen have plowed my back and made their furrows long.
But the Lord is righteous; he has cut me free from the cords of the wicked.
Psalm 129:2-4

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#422823 - 01/21/13 01:18 PM Re: new member [Re: CrushedHeart]
Jude Offline


Registered: 08/08/12
Posts: 870
Loc: New England
Welcome Crushed Heart,

Your name says alot....Welcome to MS.

Recovery starts with breaking the silence about what happened. You've already taken that step. I'd suggest finding a therapist experienced with childhood trauma to help you work through the issues you describe. You may find other issues to deal with in the process. In the meantime, read the posts here, and write some of your own when you feel able to. MS has been a huge help to me in recovery, and I hope you find what you need here.

Jude
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"And it's run for the roses as fast as you can
Your fate is delivered, your moment's at hand
It's the chance of a lifetime, in a lifetime of chance
And it's high time you joined in the dance"-Dan Fogelberg

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#423007 - 01/23/13 10:03 AM Re: new member [Re: CrushedHeart]
BuffaloCO Offline


Registered: 07/14/12
Posts: 186
Loc: USA
Welcome to the site Danny. I can't add much to what others have said, but can say being here and working with a therapist has helped me a lot in my own healing process. I signed up here last July and started therapy in the fall, and I know it is possible to sort out the hurts and confusion and find healing. Welcome brother, my hope is you will find comfort, support and understanding here as I have.
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Lao Tzu said: "When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be."

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#423062 - 01/23/13 10:07 PM Re: new member [Re: CrushedHeart]
kcinohio Offline
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Registered: 06/05/12
Posts: 119
Loc: Ohio
Welcome to MS. Hope you find some healing here.

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