A - welcome - officially!
try not to take it too personally. sounds like someone jumped to conclusions without knowing the whole story.
but i'm sure you can also understand that if someone thought you were a pedophile, pervert, child abuser-type perpetrator - that would cause lots of triggers and likely lead to over-reactions.
glad you are able to put it in perspective and hang in there with us.
There’s a special providence in the fall of a sparrow. If it be now, ’tis not to come. If it be not to come, it will be now. If it be not now, yet it will come—the readiness is all. - Hamlet, Act 5, sc 2