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#422051 - 01/14/13 08:08 AM I'm really starting to hate the people around me
Clockwise Offline


Registered: 03/03/09
Posts: 302
Loc: Pennsylvania
I had about 5 paragraphs typed out but I erased it all. I just want to ask simply, what do you guys do when you're stuck around people you hate? How do you deal with everyday when you can't stand anyone? I am increasing starting to hate all people...
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#422059 - 01/14/13 09:31 AM Re: I'm really starting to hate the people around me [Re: Clockwise]
SmartShadow Offline


Registered: 11/27/12
Posts: 135
Loc: Washington State
Hay clockwise,
That's a hard place to be.
I think when this has happened in my life, I am tired and have unresolved pain conected with other people that I can't bring to rest. It just keeps building up like a fead back loop. Too many unresolved negative feelings.
Hang in there,

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#422071 - 01/14/13 02:14 PM Re: I'm really starting to hate the people around me [Re: Clockwise]
LazyPirate Offline


Registered: 01/03/13
Posts: 106
Loc: Ontario
I can stand most people, but certain ones have a way of getting under my skin on an almost daily basis. I can't help but get crabby at them. If I had my druthers, I would never see any of them again. I would become a hermit... I do it sooooooo well, when I have the opportunity. As for what to do to deal on a daily basis: I go outside, get a coffee, have a cigarette, eat an orange... Or do all of the above!
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#422117 - 01/15/13 04:20 AM Re: I'm really starting to hate the people around me [Re: Clockwise]
Clockwise Offline


Registered: 03/03/09
Posts: 302
Loc: Pennsylvania
I don't know. People easily annoy me but I rarely ever show it. I just hold it all in and try to go about my day as best I can. I'm thinking about renting a hotel one of these weekends just so I can be by myself.
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#422153 - 01/15/13 11:50 AM Re: I'm really starting to hate the people around me [Re: Clockwise]
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Registered: 06/27/12
Posts: 336
I get like this sometimes. I do a few things. Sometimes I express myself. I find that I often get angry because I'm resentful because I'm not honest about how I feel or what I need. Other times, I think I'm angry for internal reasons, and I try to think of what fear or sadness is underneath my anger, although more often I feel "boredom" as a coverup feeling for fear or sadness, now that I think of it. The other thing I do is exercise. It just burns off the tension that I otherwise build up to insane levels. Go and run yourself hard. You'll feel better. Good luck. Bob

I have to say, I smiled when I read this post, because I sometimes feel this way, especially at work, but I don't always admit it. I like the way you expressed yourself so directly.

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#422190 - 01/15/13 08:46 PM * [Re: Clockwise]
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#422313 - 01/16/13 10:35 PM Re: I'm really starting to hate the people around me [Re: Clockwise]
Jude Offline


Registered: 08/09/12
Posts: 1596
Loc: New England
I've made it a point to try to have jobs where I work more or less alone. No other peoples crap to deal with. No drama. Just peace and quiet.

Jude
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#422321 - 01/16/13 11:07 PM Re: I'm really starting to hate the people around me [Re: Jude]
Jacob S Offline
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Registered: 01/01/13
Posts: 614
Loc: where the shadows lie
Originally Posted By: Jude
I've made it a point to try to have jobs where I work more or less alone. No other peoples crap to deal with. No drama. Just peace and quiet.

Jude


would you mind sharing some examples of those jobs? I have a hard time thinking of any.
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#422382 - 01/17/13 01:26 PM Re: I'm really starting to hate the people around me [Re: Clockwise]
cosmos Offline


Registered: 11/12/12
Posts: 185
Loc: Puget Sound
Any job where your office is your vehicle, where you fly places, drive places, and meet new people every day. Something like sales or tech type jobs, hell a postman or UPS driver have really lonely jobs. Companies still pay a premium for those who are willing to sacrifice it all to be in the “field” 24/7/365, say 25% more than a similar desk job. Anything to not have to deal with “office politics”, wouldn’t know how to handle it anymore myself.

Cee
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#422403 - 01/17/13 04:36 PM Re: I'm really starting to hate the people around me [Re: Clockwise]
LazyPirate Offline


Registered: 01/03/13
Posts: 106
Loc: Ontario
Superintendent in a condo building is a good job for being alone. I see lots of people, but it's usually just a quick hello & then they're gone. I can hide away in the boiler room, or go relax up on the roof... Not a bad gig for someone who dislikes human interaction.
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