The key to sexuality with regards to being a Survivor is acceptance and non judgment.
You'll see that there is a lot of confusion about sexuality here. Some people wonder if the CSA made them attracted to guys (or girls), and what their authentic self is. Many people struggle with shame and judgment over their sexuality, and the shame and judgment locks them there.
I've found that sexuality is fluid - it is capable of changing in surprising ways. My attraction to people is dependent not on just the physical, but also emotional and psychological. Sometimes I find myself attracted to women, because they're funny (they always turn out to be lesbian).
Acceptance and non judgment are key, I think, in claiming our birthright as sexual beings.
It's a heroes journey, and you are the hero.
Loving Kindness Meditation will dramatically improve your spirits; give it a try for just 3 days: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sz7cpV7ERsM