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#420446 - 12/30/12 01:15 AM
Re: What is the dumbest thing you've been told?
[Re: Randy65]
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dumbest thing?
"just forget about it and move on..."
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They have greatly oppressed me from my youth, but they have not gained the victory over me.
Plowmen have plowed my back and made their furrows long.
But the Lord is righteous; he has cut me free from the cords of the wicked.
Psalm 129:2-4
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#420447 - 12/30/12 01:21 AM
Re: What is the dumbest thing you've been told?
[Re: Randy65]
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Registered: 10/15/12
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Loc: New York
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Wife: "Does this explain why you don't wear nicer clothes? Because you're trying to keep men from pursuing you?"
She means well, she really means well, and for the most part she does well. But... oy!
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#420450 - 12/30/12 05:30 AM
Re: What is the dumbest thing you've been told?
[Re: Randy65]
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Registered: 12/15/09
Posts: 1556
Loc: Minnesota
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"You seem to have a catastrophic fear of destruction"
(The therapist who spent months Ignoring all my PTSD symptoms.)
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#420456 - 12/30/12 08:42 AM
Re: What is the dumbest thing you've been told?
[Re: Randy65]
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Registered: 03/15/08
Posts: 301
Loc: Canada
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"You must have liked if you kept going back."
Ex-girlfriend after disclosure.
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#420465 - 12/30/12 11:51 AM
Re: What is the dumbest thing you've been told?
[Re: Randy65]
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"If you continue to let your boyfriend do this to you, you'll become a homosexual - if you aren't one already."
... County Social Worker (who I took the city bus to see when I was 16). Yes - she actually said that. And yes - I actually believed her.
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#420476 - 12/30/12 03:34 PM
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[Re: Randy65]
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Edited by Smalltown80sBoy (04/29/13 12:43 PM)
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#420477 - 12/30/12 03:48 PM
Re: What is the dumbest thing you've been told?
[Re: Randy65]
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Registered: 08/31/11
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I have heard some great lines, but on the other side I have heard some wonderful words of support--I believe the supporters have outnumbered the negative side.
However the negative comments are hurtful and show the character of those who spoke the words--
"report it and let's get some money from the church"
"no one dissociates from abuse, it is not real"
"do you think I am stupid to believe you were abused"
"your father was the abuser not the priest"
Just a few of the hurtful comments I have heard--yes they are dumb but hurtful.
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#420478 - 12/30/12 03:54 PM
Re: What is the dumbest thing you've been told?
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Registered: 08/08/12
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Loc: New England
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"So somebody put his penis in your mouth, so what?!? That was years ago....just get over it"
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#420495 - 12/30/12 09:48 PM
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Edited by Smalltown80sBoy (04/29/13 12:44 PM)
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