Thanks for the input guys.
Here's an update:
My wife is amazing. SHE came to me and apologized for being short with me. She is going through a lot of stress at work---a lot of things
are riding on her right now. Without rehearsal, I told her I wanted to tell her more about what happened at camp. Without any more prompting, she said , "He did more than just touch you didn't he?" I nodded and she just reached out and hugged me and told me it was okay. At that point, the kids came in and joined us in a group hug. We will talk later on. I'm okay with that.