It's not something you did - they are opportunists!
If they want to abuse, they will identify a person / situation where they best think they will be able to carry out their fantasies. They often plan welll in advance how they intend to manipulate a situation.
I was 12 when I was abused, but due to events in my life at that time, I was a ripe opportunity for the perv. If luck had gone another way, I could equally have met new friends, rather than meeting that monster!
I was an opportunity...it was just the wrong opportunist that came along!
Best wishes ...Rik
*Never look down on anybody unless you're helping them up.
*I was seeking a way of expressing my anger - I found hope!
*There are many battles before the war is won! It can be won!