please extend a personal invitation to your husband to join us here. it was one of the best things i have ever done in my life to help myself. he will find a huge amount of understanding and support among us.
thanks for introducing yourself. check out the Friends and Family forum - specifically for wives, partners and supportive non-survivors. i'm sure you will find lots of help there.
i hope and pray that all of you - daughter, husband, his brother and YOU - can reach healing and restoration of relationships.
"That you are here - that life exists, and identity; that the powerful play goes on and you may contribute a verse. . . What will your verse be?" Robin Williams as John Keating in "Dead Poets Society"