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#417060 - 11/24/12 01:02 AM Online support for spouses of alcoholics
dannym Offline
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Registered: 03/24/07
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Loc: Boulder, Colorado
Hey all. I have been away from this site for a long time. My survivor issues are really pretty good. I am married to a wonderful man and we are happy. The problem is he is an active alcoholic. I'm 10 years sober - my husband knows and admits he needs to quit. My problem is I get impatient with him... It is starting to affect his health and I am feeling desperate.... But when I talk to him about it he gets defensive. I need to let him find his own way and quit for himself, but I need someone to talk to about it - any suggestions? Thanks.
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#417104 - 11/24/12 04:36 PM Re: Online support for spouses of alcoholics [Re: dannym]
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Al-Anon has been around sixty years or so and has a wealth of wisdom to support family and friends of alcoholics (and other addicts).
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#417109 - 11/24/12 05:51 PM Re: Online support for spouses of alcoholics [Re: dannym]
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Thanks, Buck. I've checked into al-anon. They have a chat option, but I'm looking for something like MS where I can post a question and get feedback. I will look into some meetings, though.

Take care,
Dan
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