i learned today that there is an investigation ongoing of an alleged abuse incident at our school. the way it is being handled is so WRONG! the guy in charge - the same JERK who leads the child protection seminars - had BOTH the alleged victim AND the alleged perp (both students - but i have no idea the ages) in the same room at the same time while he interrogated them!!! and this is the guy we are supposed to be taking our instruction from??????????? i am beyond ANGRY!!!!!!!!!

LEE

OMG. That's insane!

So he interrogated the victim in the presence of the alleged perp? How can he even begin to think that is a good idea?

YES - like it was some playground scuffle.

Hang on Lee
That is the worse case scenario and obviously that guy has no competence (age is not at all important there, person that used own power over victim is always one step forward comparing to person who has been shattered by abuse)
Maybe you could find about student's ids and send them some links to resources or their parents?
Please look how to protect yourself, to stay grounded and not too much triggered.

((((Lee))))

our school is K-12 grades so it could be anything from 2 kinders or 2 hi schoolers or a kinder and a hi schooler or any combination in between.
the identities are tightly protected - i can't intervene if i wanted to.

i am not triggered - just ready to kick some butt - if only...

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Ok Lee, I'm forgetting that I live in very non strict society and there is no possibility (nor law) that would keep secrets when such case happens.

I would love to learn for outcome (actually I would like to study how will they resolve the accusations and if they will protect not victims but rather abuser by very strict rules about confidentiality). Also in case if they will found that abuse happened I would like to learn how will institution (school) react, what would officials say to teachers, students, public..., what will be their official position etc.
Keep us informed....

Pero

If the incident in question was brought to the school's attention as anything even remotely close to sexual abuse/assault then this is an abhorrent and destructive mistake on the part of your resident child protection teacher/administrator. I mean it ain't like a couple of kids got into a fight out on the playground or something...

I'm with everyone else. This is INSANE!. I am shocked that in this day and age that someone 'in the know' would handle a situation like this.

There are no words.......

Those who cannot do, teach.