Last night my wife and I got into a heated disagreement right before bed. After we get into bed I'm still upset from our previous conversation, as I lay there in bed purposefully showing my frustration by separating my from her mentally and physically, she touched me intimately. I immediately FROZE, because the touch was unwanted at that time it ws That Old Bad Feeling,that little lonely boy was inside of me was screaming "NO!!!" I praised to myself that she would not go any further because I wasn't sure what I would do. There I laid frozen, thinking, "I can't fight my wife, and I would hate to push her away." Fortunately she stopped, after a short time of not reviving any feed back from me.
My question is how do i explain what I felt to my wife, and what should I do if it happens again?

i am sorry that this happened to you/ or that
you exp'd this- i would really like to hear
others feedback on this.

xo
Goran

Coming from experience with that same situation, i think you should tell her exactly what you typed down. she would understand so much more why its not a good idea to touch you, or comfort you in that way during times like that.