I know that you mean well but you cant tell him that it is OK, its not, and he knows this.
So what to do. Tell him that you love him no matter what, and that you will help him in any way possible. If he gives you permission to help him, then you can tell him that you have done research into CSA and found a great website and that you have found a therapist that specializes in CSA, (from how to shop for a therapist) on the home page.
He has been very brave in telling you this and seems to trust you a lot, so love him, never lie and learn as much as you can about CSA.
Hang in there and dont be afraid to ask the hard questions on this site, there are amazing ladies here with great wisdom. And never forget to look after yourself first and foremost.
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