Newest Members
tobeme, kyrob07, kdj1941, skitter, DeutschBar
11347 Registered Users
Today's Birthdays
bass drummer (24), CJFox (36), foothillbilly (56), Gary Cruz (51), JPaschal (31), Just Anger (60), Pheonix (36)
Who's Online
3 registered (Thebo, petercorbett, 1 invisible), 31 Guests and 1 Spider online.
Key: Admin, Global Mod, Mod
Forum Stats
11347 Members
70 Forums
58002 Topics
408758 Posts

Max Online: 418 @ 07/02/12 06:29 AM
Twitter
Page 1 of 3 1 2 3 >
Topic Options
#415510 - 11/06/12 02:02 PM Did You Vote? Why or Why Not?
Lancer Offline
Member
MaleSurvivor

Registered: 07/13/12
Posts: 716
Loc: ation, Location
Since this is election day in the U.S., I thought about those times I didn't vote simply because I felt too depressed or hopeless.

Rather than a partisan political discussion, I'd like to hear how your decision to vote or not relates to your CSA and/or recovery.
_________________________
"The Answer to the Great Question Of Life, the Universe and Everything Is...Forty-two."

Top
#415511 - 11/06/12 02:22 PM Re: Did You Vote? Why or Why Not? [Re: Lancer]
JustScott Offline
Greeter Emeritus
MaleSurvivor

Registered: 01/27/08
Posts: 2501
I voted. No connection to my recovery at all.

Top
#415513 - 11/06/12 02:33 PM Re: Did You Vote? Why or Why Not? [Re: Lancer]
Casmir213 Offline
Member
MaleSurvivor

Registered: 05/14/09
Posts: 824
Loc: Northeast, USA
I usually don't vote. Not sure what I'll do today.
_________________________
I see recovery as a lifelong journey rather than a final destination, a journy, though, which can have many successes along the way.

WoR Alumnus - Hope Springs, OH, October 2009

My avatar is the farmhouse at the Hope Spring, OH WoR. It's a nice place.

Top
#415514 - 11/06/12 02:40 PM Re: Did You Vote? Why or Why Not? [Re: Lancer]
Suwanee Offline


Registered: 10/30/12
Posts: 303
Loc: SE USA
I voted at lunch. I'm not in a swing state, but the local/state elections are more important anyway. No relation to CSA.
_________________________
You take a walk and you try to understand
Nothing can hurt you
Unless you want it to... R.E.M./Pylon "Crazy"


My Story: http://www.malesurvivor.org/board/ubbthr...3379#Post423379

Top
#415517 - 11/06/12 02:50 PM Re: Did You Vote? Why or Why Not? [Re: Lancer]
Magellan Offline
Member
MaleSurvivor

Registered: 12/31/10
Posts: 1076
Loc: California
Been too depressed lately to research the local propositions and never registered my new address.

I live in an ultra liberal city (San Francisco), and since my views are in line with much of the rest of the City, I didn't feel the need to expend the extra energy to contribute to the larger society, of which, I often feel like I'm *NOT* a part of. My vote would be inconsequential anyway. If I lived in Ohio, or Florida, however, I would have voted.

First year in years that I didn't vote.

Maybe next time.

Top
#415518 - 11/06/12 02:51 PM Re: Did You Vote? Why or Why Not? [Re: Casmir213]
Magellan Offline
Member
MaleSurvivor

Registered: 12/31/10
Posts: 1076
Loc: California
If you're in a swing state, please vote. Unless, of course, your views oppose mine. Then don't vote. :P


Originally Posted By: Casmir213
I usually don't vote. Not sure what I'll do today.

Top
#415521 - 11/06/12 04:14 PM * [Re: Lancer]
Smalltown80sBoy Offline
Member
MaleSurvivor

Registered: 03/25/12
Posts: 1508
*


Edited by Smalltown80sBoy (04/29/13 11:54 AM)

Top
#415522 - 11/06/12 04:45 PM Re: Did You Vote? Why or Why Not? [Re: Lancer]
MarkK Offline
Member
MaleSurvivor

Registered: 04/02/07
Posts: 2470
Loc: Denver, CO
I figure if I don't vote, I don't have any right to gripe. So I voted.
_________________________
the words
    http://csarj.blogspot.com/
the music
    http://www.restorativeworship.com/
the book
    https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/94948?ref=mbkrueger

Kirkridge - October 2008
Alta - September 2012

Top
#415526 - 11/06/12 05:32 PM Re: Did You Vote? Why or Why Not? [Re: Lancer]
traveler Offline


Registered: 02/07/06
Posts: 2437
Loc: overseas
i didn't vote this time or the past 2 times.

living overseas, it's more complicated and frustrating. the first time, the absentee ballots arrived after the election was over. next time we didn't bother trying. same thing this year for many who requested them - delivery after the deadline for return.

the US PO is clueless. they will tell you that mail to our area takes 5-7 days. LOL! we have NEVER had anything arrive in less than 2 weeks and usually much longer. once it leaves the US they have no control over the fact that it may sit on a dock or in a warehouse or in a central PO waiting to go to a local one for days, weeks, even months. sometimes we have had mail finally arrive her in Asia after being misdirected from the US to the Caribbean or S. America or Africa. one time while home in the States we went to our local PO to mail something to a friend who lived near us overseas - a place we had just left weeks before. the person behind the counter told us that the address on our package (where we had been living for the past few years) did not exist!

so maybe i don't exist either?
lee
_________________________
They have greatly oppressed me from my youth, but they have not gained the victory over me.
Plowmen have plowed my back and made their furrows long.
But the Lord is righteous; he has cut me free from the cords of the wicked.
Psalm 129:2-4

Top
#415534 - 11/06/12 09:07 PM Re: Did You Vote? Why or Why Not? [Re: Lancer]
Lancer Offline
Member
MaleSurvivor

Registered: 07/13/12
Posts: 716
Loc: ation, Location
Since I brought up the subject...

My participation was because I WASN'T feeling depressed or hopeless. As many of us know, one of the things that goes with depression is the feeling of being overwhelmed and that just dragging your ass out to do something like vote is too damned difficult.

Took four tries with the long lines that I could NOT deal with: two early voting attempts, one when the polls opened, and success - no line - midday.
_________________________
"The Answer to the Great Question Of Life, the Universe and Everything Is...Forty-two."

Top
Page 1 of 3 1 2 3 >



I agree that my access and use of the MaleSurvivor discussion forums and chat room is subject to the terms of this Agreement. AND the sole discretion of MaleSurvivor.
I agree that my use of MaleSurvivor resources are AT-WILL, and that my posting privileges may be terminated at any time, and for any reason by MaleSurvivor.