I just joined about an hour or so ago and wrote my story [or part of it - as I remembered other 'follow up behviour'] My story is awaiting moderation [a good thing] and hopefully will show up in the next little while in the survivors stories section.

While I consider myself heterosexual, I do have a strong same sex attraction dimension as well, forming part of my fantasy life and occassionally [ a few times per year] becoming reality. Both in fantasy and in reality I tend to be submissive from a SSA point of view.

Welcome Peiguy and glad to have you on board!
We brothers at MS are here for you and to support you in any way we can. We have huge shoulders to lean on. I am also heterosexual with SSA issues. You are not alone.

Welcome my brother from the far North. Thanks for sharing and best wishes o you thru ur recovery.

Welcome Peiguy,

You'll find alot of stories here expressing feelings and experiences similar to your own. Keep posting and keep reading. You'll learn alot quickly. Healing is a painful process and none of us has done it perfectly, but were all in this together, so ask for help. We're always here.

Jude

Hello Peiguy

I am glad you found us but sorry you qualify

Trust the brothers in these rooms


Derrik

Welcome to the forums. Hope you find some healing here.

Hi, my fraternal Canadian brother.

Welcome to MS. Here you will receive compassion, understanding & hope, from your brothers (fraternal) & friends (in pain).

We all have been there. We have been into the depths of our soul & hell too.

We will hear your cries. We will help in your fears & share in your tears.

Be prepared for the emotional roller coaster ride of your life.

Ms, has a lot to offer. One, is our (HC)healing circles. On Sunday & Wednesday evenings. Starting at 9pm Eastern. It's a moderated forum.It's by invitation. All you have to do to be accepted into the room is be in the chat site about 10 minutes before the start time. The moderator will type anyone here for the HC and all you have to do is enter HC, then another screen will come up and if you accept then you are in. It is in a safe room (only those invited) can see & respond. What is said there stays there. You can speak or you can just sit back & listen & perhaps learn something from our other brothers there.

You can also correspond with others via a PM (private message) only you two can read & answer them.

If you want to limit who can read your postings, there is the members only site. In these pages anyone one can read them.

So, my new Canadian, fraternal brother, peiguy, wishing you well in healing. You are on your way.

"I will take that lost boys hand, and I will lead him from the depths of darkness, into the sunshine, forever into eternity." As he is me.

Pete..Irishmoose.

Welcome, my new Canadian friend. For what it's worth - the "SSA dimension" is more common than you might think.

Hi Peiguy,
I totally agree with MarkK. You are among friends here. Be gentle and patient with self.

just wandering around trying to get my bearings ... only 3rd day here