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#412368 - 10/06/12 09:27 PM Re: Three Hours Ago I Told My Wife [Re: Alden]
lapchinj Offline
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Registered: 06/07/11
Posts: 1124
Loc: New York
Peace,Rainbows & Healing


Edited by lapchinj (03/16/13 05:02 PM)
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Depression Feels Like Home, and Happiness is Just a Place You Visit

It will get better....

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#412404 - 10/07/12 01:13 PM Re: Three Hours Ago I Told My Wife [Re: Alden]
lee55 Offline


Registered: 01/12/11
Posts: 13
Loc: midwest
Ed
I too have similar feelings and desires. Abused at 8 by older cousin I found the experience pleasurable. My closest thing to reality is chatting on line with other men. I have indulged in chatting with anonymous men on line without wifes knowledge It is a constant struggle to keep from doing this. Get this tremendous guilt from hiding this from spouse. As hard as I try to stop, these thoughts return every few weeks. Have been to therapist but never receive anything that works to curb this behavior. Nice to be able to share here though
lee

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#412434 - 10/07/12 08:58 PM Re: Three Hours Ago I Told My Wife [Re: Alden]
Edward2 Offline


Registered: 09/30/12
Posts: 17
Loc: Maryland
Lee.........It is very helpful to know that someone else has had similar experiences. The word "struggle" defines my life right now. Living my life as if this never happened is no longer acceptable. I feel like a fraud. Would really like to discuss. Can we do this in real time in the chat room? Tell me what would be a good day/time for you.
Ed

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#412594 - 10/09/12 12:14 PM Re: Three Hours Ago I Told My Wife [Re: Alden]
lee55 Offline


Registered: 01/12/11
Posts: 13
Loc: midwest
Hope to chat at some time which works for both of us. Sent a pm to discus possible times. Hope to hear from you
lee

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