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#411981 - 10/02/12 11:50 AM Hi! I'm new here
Thomas Olevano Offline


Registered: 10/02/12
Posts: 3
I'm new to this board. I'm still dealling with the fact of having been sexually abused by two male babysitters at the age of 8. There are no support groups for men in my area and outside of my thereapist who is a woman I really dont have anyone to talk to about it. I'm also a gay man and it's really screewed up my relations with other gay men. So, hopefully I can find some supourt that I need here.

Peace and Love,
Wheev

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#412000 - 10/02/12 02:03 PM Re: Hi! I'm new here [Re: Thomas Olevano]
JustScott Offline
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Registered: 01/27/08
Posts: 2568
Howdy Thomas,

Sorry to hear that you were violated by those who were trusted to take care of you.

I'm pretty isolated too, no programs etc, and the one therapist I did see for awhile (woman T as well) no longer see adults, she works strictly with children now.

You've found a good place to talk and begin to share and heal.

Take it easy, don't rush yourself. One day and step at a time.

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#412023 - 10/02/12 07:41 PM Re: Hi! I'm new here [Re: Thomas Olevano]
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Registered: 09/23/12
Posts: 15
Loc: Detroit MI
Welcome! I am also pretty new to this, but I can tell you that this site has helped me more then anything so far. My therapist is ok, but she has not been through it. There are literally thousands of people on here that that know exactly how you feel. It is sad that you have to be here, but I do not think there is a better place to be when dealing with child sexual abuse. Hope you find what you are looking for and begin to heal soon! smile

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#412050 - 10/03/12 01:38 AM Re: Hi! I'm new here [Re: Thomas Olevano]
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Registered: 02/29/12
Posts: 642
Loc: Alabama
Welcome to the best healing site for sexual abuse. Sorry you have to be here but welcom
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#412108 - 10/03/12 06:56 PM Re: Hi! I'm new here [Re: Thomas Olevano]
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Registered: 03/07/10
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Hi Thomas,

Welcome to MS.

I am glad you have found this place of healing and support.

There are several books you might find useful.

Abused Boys: The Neglected Victims of Abuse by Mic Hunter

Victims No Longer by Mike Lew

I am certain others will share titles they have found useful. You can find these titles, and others here at the bookstore.

Take your time and look around. You do not want to trigger yourself by reading too many posts at one time.

At your own pace, read the boards and wander into chat. The lounge (chat) is open 24 hours a day though it isn't always populated.

We also have moderated chats called Healing Circles. They meet on Sunday and Wednesday evenings at 9pm eastern time and one on Tuesday at 19:00 UTC (European and African time zone) which translates to 2 PM Eastern US time zone. The Healing Circle on Tuesdays is scheduled to resume in January.

Again, welcome to MS.




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