Yes, he does post here. He posts under the name WVGuy. He actually is the one who referred me here, especially since I can see that I have enabled him along the way.
It is damn hard thats for sure. Its been hard for me to be able to stand my ground.
He does say that he is going out of state to his parents house this coming weekend after he explains to his daughter that he won't be here for a while. That is where he is going to be starting into therapy or counseling, whatever course of action that he decides upon. I think its far past time.
He walked off his job the other day. This is one of those behaviors that he's either going to chose to do or he's not.
I'm glad he is going to his parents. (well one parent one step parent technically.) I think he will be much better off if he can focus on himself rather than our situation and I can focus on me rather than our situation, and we can both take a breath and maybe get a little clarity.