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#408212 - 08/28/12 12:52 PM Asexuals
ig3 Offline


Registered: 04/04/12
Posts: 54
Should this section's title include reference to asexuals?

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#408570 - 08/31/12 05:48 PM Re: Asexuals [Re: ig3]
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no one seconds... maybe I am the only one.

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#408651 - 09/01/12 02:38 PM Re: Asexuals [Re: ig3]
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Registered: 10/09/11
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Hey J. I wondered about this your post. I've wanted to ask you in chat room but somehow we moved on other direction, I guess next time wink?
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#411207 - 09/24/12 01:55 AM Re: Asexuals [Re: ig3]
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Registered: 10/30/11
Posts: 39
Hi, not to say you are the same as me, but I also believed at some stage that I am asexual. I spoke to the therapist here on MS about this and it turned out that I am not asexual at all. Again, I am not saying we are the same, but I understand how you feel.
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#411236 - 09/24/12 11:03 AM Re: Asexuals [Re: ig3]
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Thanks for sharing, asexuality, it seems, is kind of new as a concept and not accepted. I talked to my therapist and she dismissed it right away.

I am following the advice of a yoga instructor and I am being flexible about it. Taking things as they come. Enjoy being in the asexualidad.tk community though.

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#411367 - 09/25/12 01:12 PM Re: Asexuals [Re: ig3]
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Registered: 05/07/11
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Loc: Johannesburg South Africa
HI Ig3

Just a thought. It is often recommended that one avoids branding himself as far as sexuality is concerned.
The best thing to do is heal from your CSA and then decide what it is you are once you have a good concept of what you are.
The person I was when I started this journey and what I am today are two very very different people.
Avoid the labels and just deal with the fall out of your past. Once you’ve done that successfully then you can make a decision about your sexuality.

Heal well
Martin
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#411372 - 09/25/12 02:56 PM Re: Asexuals [Re: ig3]
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Registered: 10/30/11
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Thanks Martin, good advice!
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