My husband and I talk alot about his acting out with men. He still considers himself straight and I am still leary from the stories he has told me about his activities. He has had multple hookups with men and has had one long term guy he has hooked up with on a regular basis for about 4 years. This one guy was gay and my husband told me that the gay guy once asked him a question about his ass and my h told him that his ass was "hot". My questioing is if he isnt attracted to men then why would he think a mans ass is "Hot"? He also has had chances to hookup with swingers but he never did because he said he could not perform with the woman but he has had sex with 2 men at the same time and was he said"a ultimate fantasy for him". I feel he is a bisexual or gay and is in denial but he says otherwise. s