There are many male survivors I know of in the Twin Cities (myself included).
See the weekly group meeting I just posted about in this forum. It's listed in the resources linked on the main malesurvivor.org page. Talking to other survivors can be very helpful. Darrick, when you say, "No one seems to understand"... do you mean other male survivors? Because, I find other men who've been abused DO tend to understand, often immediately and that connectedness is really helpful to us...
Et par le pouvoir d’un mot Je recommence ma vie, Je suis né pour te connaître, Pour te nommer
And by the power of a single word I can begin my life again, I was born to know you, to name you