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#406026 - 08/06/12 06:23 PM Re: How I got to this place in my life......you? [Re: lucylives]
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Registered: 07/06/12
Posts: 89
Loc: Ohio
So, all this time I/we have been fighting what we really don't like in ourselves? What we really don't like from out childhood, eh?

Bares repeating because it seems so simple on some levels.

Ive always said "it would be great if we could use our powers for good and not evil!"

My T said the 7 year itch has been moved up to 5 years. Seems to be a make or break point as I'm seeing. Anyone else in the 5 year range with this type of work?

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#406150 - 08/07/12 08:58 PM Re: How I got to this place in my life......you? [Re: lucylives]
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Registered: 04/07/11
Posts: 357
Isn't it funny, esposa and Hero, how alike we all are? Haps I don't know enough of your story. excuse the comment, ladies, and I am not saying this in any belittling way but I feel like esposa, hero and I are 3 peas in one f&*ked up pod. Not fucked up because of us but because of the dysfunction of our families so we marry what we know. More f&*ked up! Ugh. I hate that. I know so much of your stories, I feel as if they are my own. I wonder about the other spouses/so others on here or are we just the exception.

I love you girls! My soul sisters!

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#406162 - 08/07/12 10:00 PM Re: How I got to this place in my life......you? [Re: lucylives]
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Registered: 07/06/12
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Loc: Ohio
Lucy, I take no offense. I do feel a bit different in my situation since my guy made no proclomation beyond childish ones during our relationship.

Even thru thus seperation becoming permanent, I still find myself beating my codependent head against the wall. He's shut down, though. Nothing new on this front. wink

I'd admire and relate to you all, tho, I must admit.

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#406319 - 08/09/12 05:01 PM Re: How I got to this place in my life......you? [Re: lucylives]
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Registered: 04/07/11
Posts: 357
Haps, I am sure you are no different from the rest of us. I just know Hero and Esposa's stories very well as they are my own . I am sure you are just like us too.

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